Trading Judgment for Love

We Christians love to talk about good works, as if the sanctity of the entire universe were hinging on us making sure that everyone knows they need to be good as often as possible. We have strapped on our gun and badge and made it our sacred duty to secure the world from… well, knowing what most of us already know. 

But we’re not the moral police, we’re the love philanthropists. 


Instead of being so keen to pick another unripe mess from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, we should be chomping at the bit to speak love into the lives of others. But, because we’re so enraptured by the idea of correcting people—some think it’s our job as Christians—and judging their place in the body, we are more than happy to put ourselves in the morally superior position and say that their relative ‘goodness’ is not enough. 

The problem with judging others is that there’s a tree-trunk sized blinder in our own eye—our own moral failings—that keeps us from seeing clearly. So that causes us to suck at judging and, so, our words to others mean nothing.

Sometimes, we can become so enamored with a religious idea that we try to wedge that idea into every argument, every philosophy and every religious thought we have. In this case, that idea is that we don’t believe doing good works is given enough credit. So, every single time we think we hear someone saying something that sounds as though good works aren’t getting their due, we slip the argument out of our holy pockets and toss it in, whether it fits or not. 

We create straw men to do our bidding because, often, those who believe God doesn’t need a bodyguard either won’t bother retorting or won’t expend the energy it takes to upend our logically corrupt arguments—and that feels like winning. And, to be honest, I’m good with words in an argument. So, I get the temptation. 

But then, God comes along to remind me—often after I’ve made a fool of myself again—that winning, or acting like I’m protecting the truth don’t matter—love does. 

To be clear, I want to please God more than you can possibly imagine. But I’m a terrible mess. Still, I trust that Jesus has done what needs to be done to secure my place alongside him. And if that trust isn’t enough, then we’re all going to hell in a very uncomfortable handbasket. 

We've misunderstood what right judgment is. To say that one will look more like Jesus when they become a Christian is undoubtedly true. However, to argue that someone whose heart is desperately attached to God, who wholeheartedly trusts him for their eternal security in his loving arms might not belong to him because they don’t meet your current standards in their journey is both arrogant and superficial. 

Because, if our faith in him is not enough—even the tiniest sliver of faith—then we don’t have a hope either. 

Besides, you won’t find a single, solitary person who has their hope alone in Jesus' gift of Salvation who is not also at least budding with the flowers that promise fruit. 

Instead of trying to fix everyone, and make sure they do this Christian life thing, in every detail, the way I do, we should love one another. 

I should love you enough to pray for you rather than tear you apart. 

I should love you enough to reach into your life when you've screwed it up big time rather than scoff at you and point at you as a good example of what happens to sinners. 

I should, as God does, hold you at your weakest, envelop you with undeserved love, and woo you back into God's holy arms with sweet, gracious affections, knowing that I'm just as capable as you of failing; just as needy as you of God's grace.


-Chad West

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